@Catherine, yep, that pretty much sums up our dynamic, too.

@John S., so it is possible to reign in and convert an unruly spender!

@Femmefrugality, yep, I find I can stop being such a ninnyhammer and partake in and enjoy some of M.'s occasional devilish splurges. And I do appreciate his fresh perspective on things, which helps lighten me the 'eff up.

@Michelle, LOL, you uttered that so emphatically.

@Lauren and Average Joe, sniggle, sniggle, snort. (Oh. You guys.)

@Crystal, tee-hee, hope the grapes were scrumptious. And it sounds like Mr. BFS has a good woman at his side (that will beat him profusely for getting off track.)

@Buck Inspire, as it is with me. I'd never have a darn lick of fun without someone swaying me to the dark side every now and again.

@Mr. CBB, I am so sorry to hear that. M. will make ridiculous purchases with his own 'fun' money so I can snicker about it without terrible repercussion, but having someone drain you like that, or be dishonest/ irresponsible with finances, is quite a toxic situation. In the circumstances you presented, I would be furious and ditch the loser for someone willing to be a financial teammate. Glad for the happy ending, aka Mrs. CBB!

@Mo', sounds like the perfect blending. Keep that man around!

@Money Smart Guides, I am glad you found a companion with a lick of financial sense to complement your values. Good scouting, sir!

@Holly, LOL, too cute. That one is certainly a keeper. Do dust bunnies form in his wallet?

@Glen, we both sat and scarfed down the itty-bitty package in companionable silence for a moment. Best. Nuts. Ever. <— sounds so wrong, haha. Seems like you have a lovely lady. Another novitiate of saving! Ye gods, there is hope.

@Debtgirl, yay, SO proud of the strides you have been making.

@Kim, glad to hear your Hubs tends to have more sense than mine!

@Pauline, very diplomatic of you. And, they were absolutely delicious. Not something I would've bought personally, but he generously shared them.

Thank you all for the lovely responses. It was cool to catch a glimpse of the financial dynamics in your dearest(?) relationships.